"Of course, no one is perfectly symmetrical, but we all do rate those with the greatest symmetry as being the best looking. To the re- searchers’ surprise, women’s romantic passion toward their mates did not increase the frequency of orgasm. Not only that but even though conventional wisdom holds that birth control and protection from dis- ease increase orgasm rates among women—supposedly because they allow women to feel more relaxed during intercourse—no relation- ship emerged between female orgasm and the use of contraception. Instead, only how good looking the guy was correlated with a high frequency of female orgasm during copulation. After all, our brains are built for survival in the precontraceptive Stone Age. In evolutionary terms, condoms and the pill are just flashes in the pan—too recent to have changed the way we experience emotions or sex."
- The Female Brain
Need this in my life…
Wherever you may be, whatever you may doing, find the things in your life to truly appreciate and do exactly that. And if, my goodness if, you should find yourself alone, close your eyes, take a deep breath, and give thanks to the voice inside yourself, the you that you have fought so hard to become. Happy Thanksgiving.
1.Do you want a boyfriend or girlfriend?
I’m very unsure of how to genuinely answer that question. I like companionship… I enjoy intimacy.. I definitely love sex… but at this point I don’t think I’m capable of attending to another person in that context.
Some people have a tendency to think that because I’m emotionally intense I automatically want them to be exclusive. That’s usually not the case. The next person I date has to literally make me want nothing more than that… To the point where the idea of being single seems nonsensical.
I guess that’s when I know I’m ready for another relationship.
2.When did your last hug take place?
3.Are you a jealous person?
I guess it all depends on the person I’m dating.. Some of my exes would undeniably say yes, many would say no.. I think the ones I let make me insecure or the ones who fed into my insecurities could attest to my cray fits. The men in my life who really made an effort to make me feel secure never had that problem.
4.Are you tired right now?
Yes. Nicole woke me up at 6am to keep her up. Now I can’t sleep.
5.Do you chew on your straws?
6.Have you ever been called a tease?
Wouldn’t that be hot…..?
7.Have you ever been awake for 48 hours straight?
It usually involved an excessive amount of illegal substances.
8.Do you cry easily?
9.What should you be doing right now?
Sleeping or fucking. I have a bed.. I am alone. I guess sleeping is my only option..
10.Are you a heavy sleeper?
11.Do you think you can last in a relationship for 6 months?
The real question is… Can someone last with me.. I’m a real pain in the ass.
12.Are you mad at someone right now?
13.Do you believe in love?
It’s all you need..
14.What makes you laugh no matter what?
15.Who was the last person you talked to?
16.Do you get butterflies around the person you like?
I miss that feeling. Haven’t met someone who gets me all mushy just yet.
17.Will you get married?
It takes two baby..
18.When was the last time you smiled?
is it bad that I get excited at the thought of marrying the words ‘yes’ and ‘please’ together..
that individually neither actually provokes much.. but the idea of saying them in sequential order induces intense experiences of arousal in my body…
especially when I say them to someone I’m attracted to…
yes… please… yes please…. ……..